Well at the start it was just a spankbank for my favourite filth. But then I started writing captions.
I got feedback from a few brave ladies who felt safe enough here to message an anonymous internet pervert. Together we explored our kinks and in the process made friends.
So it stopped being just porn:
It was about writing porn that let women be submissive in a safe, sexy way.
It was about emphasising consent, no matter how rough and pery the sex is
It was about empowering women to rise above the misogynist slut shaming our society seems to be infected with.
On the way:
I made friends, some deep friendships that I treasure.
I got to be a support for the lost and lonely and sad
I was privileged to be the someone people chose to poor their hearts out to at 3 in the morning
I helped girls realise that they should expect respect, care and orgasms from their relationship.
I got to be the voice asking someone not to cut themselves, when they had no one else.
In short I got to, in a small way, help people feel better about themselves.
So, seriously, fuck you Tumblr and your puritanical new management. We had a good, kind caring community where women were empowered to explore their sexuality without stigma and you have destroyed it.
It makes me so sad.
My new home: https://bedtimeforbadgirls.bdsmlr.com

